How to get Over a Guy

How to get Over a Guy

First of all.. Let me state that this entry wasnt written all by me.. With the help of friends and cousins.. we covered it up with several research… Most girls try to get over their ex by talking trash about them or their new girlfriend or by blaming the whole break up where the blame wasnt deserved..
All this does is lead to more drama and your ex hating you more whilst you still yearn for him..

1.Take interest in other boys. He wont be the only one! Look for a new one that made you feel like your Ex made you feel.

2.Hang out with friends. Don’t sit at home and mourn! Call friends or go hang out with them. It will show him that your strong and it’ll get your mind off him!

3.Enlist the help of others. Turn to a trustworthy friend that knows how to keep a secret. Letting your feelings out to someone gets rid of extra stress and emotion. This person can make you feel better BUT.. yes there is a big but.. Dont make this situation ALL ABOUT U and a way to seek attention from others.. U might jus be deviated from the whole point of gettin over him and at the end of it all You would still be wanting him badly..

4.Think of some negatives in your relationship. See what went wrong. Focus on the good, but also remember why you might have broken up. You may see that your guy/girl may not have been that great or that he/she may not have been totally interested in you.. If he/she goes for another this means that He/she referred to you as 2nd best.. We wouldnt want that occuring would we?

5.Clear everything out of your life that reminds you of him. Pictures, songs, clothing articles, other personal items - everything must go! (( thats for some people who are deeply attached.. this works for the physically attached ppl ))

6.Commit completely to getting over him. If you allow yourself to have doubts, or be weak, it will drag on and on. Repeat over and over to yourself - I don’t need him and be sure what u actually repeat you FEEL.. telling is one and believing is another..

7.Get out and meet people. If possible, try to meet another special somene. Having a new man in your life is the best way to forget about someone. Not only will they keep you busy, they’ll put in your mind all the good things your ex never did, or the bad things your ex did but your new boyfriend doesn’t. This is not a revound stage… It serves as a way of reinventing yourself.. or simply changing the way you always did stuff.. there comes a time where an UPGRADE is needed.. on the contrary most times you use a guy to literally make your ex jealous.. NOW THATS REBOUNDING in a sense.. because you dont want to get over him.. U simply want him back!!! 7.Hang out with your girlfriends as much as possible. They’ll help you get through it, listen to you rant, keep your mind off things, and eat ice cream with you. Plus, you’ll remember how much you like them all, and how fun they are.

8. Write 20 or more of your good qualities and keep reading them over and over, adding as you think of some. It’s important to remember that you are a beautiful, amazing person and you will find love again. Due to the breakup U mightve been insecure u can use this time to reassure yourself…

9. Let time pass. The more it goes, the easier it will get. Time DOES heal all. Just remember…there’s a reason why he’s out of your life! Be free!

10. Concentrate on his weaknesses, both physical and personal. If he had ugly hairy hands, imagine them daily and think about how gross they were. If he was selfish, think about it often, saying things to yourself like “Man, *so and so* was so completely selfish…what a jerk. I”m so glad I don’t have to put up with his egoistic, immature behavior anymore.” You will feel like you dated a total loser.

11. REMEMBER : Everyone has been through this & everyone gets through it. You might think you’re alone, and it’s too hard, but it will get easier and you will be happier.

12. While anger is a natural and healthy part of the process, don’t allow it to consume you, and be a new way of obsessing over your ex. You don’t want to stay bitter forever. be optimistic and consider yourself learning from previous mistakes.. This breakup can even be used to better your future much better relationship!!

13. Your girlfriends will be willing to hear all about it at first, but no one likes to hear someone complain forever. After a few days, they’ll be ready to move on, even if you aren’t, and you have to be considerate. Don’t take this personally!

14. Think positively after a breakup. Maybe this guy was just not for you long term. He may have done you a favor by letting you go. Remember, it was probably not your fault.

15. Practice detachment. Never show your desperation and craving no matter how bad you want him back. This will only make your situation worse. Be a carefree and independent person. Cultivate the hobbies and attitude. Getting over someone may not be easy.. but its all in your mentality.. the first stage is by Accepting the relationship and then acknowledging that he/she isnt going to be back into your life… he/she may even be happy somewhere else…!!