What Barbie thinks of the Other Woman

Insecurities can plague us when we are a woman.. I think this is written in our DNA -’You can never match up to her’… So i thought.. But it can be defeated..

I am one of those that are constantly amazed at the diversity of men & women. I love watching people (not to make fun of them nor judge them but) to see the relational dynamics at work in individuals and OFFCOURSE to watch the kaleidoscope of emotions that each and every human displays…

You are at one of your favorite chill outs or going to.. Then You pass a bunch of girls who maybe you went to school with or affiliate with some of their affiliates… The stop their activities just to stare you down & criticize.

This dynamic Is an example of what women are doing everyday from every bracket.
* Sizing each other up
* Judging themselves based on another
*Comparing supposed weaknesses and trying to make themselves feel better than the other…

For women I guess this comes instinctively.

Now trust me Im not about to Bash females Here.. I am a proud Female & its definitely not my intention to denigrate others. But Mine is to show women that they havent matured past age 6 YET!! and its time we step up!!

In Life i have never lacked thinking about the “other” woman.. I mean grief gosh I had my insecure period where if I had the chance I would wipe her name off the face of the earth!! My lack of self-contentment Had engulfed me!! creating some form of jealousy and Insecurity. It felt the worse EVER!!

You see, We allow ourselves to to buy to the concept of comparison, we then limit our own ability to interact with other women amongst us. When our thoughts are overwhelmed with worries about those who we perceive as better or “other” than we are- we are in fact limiting or changing the way we think about ourselves and how we relate to others.

I was soo hellbent on my boyfriends ex-girlfriend.. Not that I felt she was prettier than I was.. (oo noo hell nooo nope nopess) but i always thought that he accepted her.. soo much more.. more than he would ever accepted me and Made it publicly known!!

He never spoke about the situation to me so i was left to pick up bits everywhere and from everyone… Hence analytically put one and two together.. It make sense to me…
Just the fact that he never cleared the air on my suspicions made it worse by me and ate me up inside..
He had me wondering on my deficiency… What was I lacking she had.. What Did I go wrong.. Should I be more like her just to please him??? But then later on I realized.. its not me.. So I really do not know where the problem lies and honestly it was quite confusing by me.. Vain Me just wondered why would he let someone like me go??

I suddenly got Tired and frustrated with all that drama and unbearable emotions.. So either someone catches up or… someone moves out.. luckily upon airing my problems alot… someone caught up before it was too late.. and it was nearing too late.. I guess some form of hope and determination had me going on..

so Ken might jus be doing something… hmm!